Dear Deidre

I was sent home from work early and ended up having sex with my sister-in-law and her pal.

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN a fire at work meant I was sent home early, I ended the day having sex with my sister-in-law and her friend. It was a hot night. I’m 42 and don’t often work nights. My wife is 38 and a nurse. Now and then our shifts clash and tha...

New boyfriend doesn’t care for my kids and I feel like a single mum.

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE completely gone off my partner. He does nothing to help with our five-month-old baby, or anything else for that matter. I’m tempted to cheat. We’ve been together for three years. He’s 31 and I’m 29. I already have two boys with...

Girlfriend found my porn stash and sex toy and now she’s kicked me out of bed.

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER four years of being alone I found my soulmate. Then she discovered my old stash of porn so I’m down on the sofa sleeping alone. It was going so well. She Is 33 and I’m 35. We have the same interests and sense of humour. I was pi...

My friend is battling depression but they won’t take my advice and get help.

DEAR DEIDRE: A FRIEND with depression is having a really hard time of it but I fear she is not helping herself with the lifestyle she leads. Her life is very up and down. Like me, she is 34 but she has had way more partners than me.   We go o...

I’m too nervous to ask out a co-worker 20 years younger than me – I’d be happy being friends with benefits.

DEAR DEIDRE: THERE is a girl who works at the same garden centre as me who I fancy loads. She hasn’t got a boyfriend but has a “friends with benefits” thing with a lad she knows. She has worked here for the past six months. She is blonde, in her m...

University course is a waste of time but I am getting closer to gay pal.

DEAR DEIDRE: UNIVERSITY life is great and I love the people but I am studying the wrong course. It is just not what I expected. I asked if I could change but was told I would have to drop out and reapply next year. I’m 18, have a brilliant flat-sh...

My ‘boyfriend’ doesn’t want to commit as a couple and I feel hurt.

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been seeing my boyfriend for three months, so isn’t it time we were officially a couple? I’m 17 and he’s 25. We’ve seen each other eight times. I know it isn’t much, but he was working away. Do you think it’s too soon to ask if w...

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant and I’m not sure I can cope with him having a love child.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY world came crashing down when a girl told me she’d had a one-night stand with my boyfriend – and now she’s going to have his baby. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I’m 22 and he is 27. I’m so in love with him now...

I’ve been in limbo since my girlfriend dumped me so she could ‘find herself’.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend has dumped me. She says she’s not happy, is lost and needs to find herself. We had been together for just over a year and went to New York to celebrate our first anniversary. That was brilliant but when we got home, she ...

Ever since I had my second child I haven’t been able to stand the thought of physical contact.

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER having our second child, my sex drive deserted me. It hasn’t come back. I’m 31. Both our kids have special needs but they were easy births so I don’t get what’s wrong with me. Their dad is 36. He’s lovely and says he will stand ...

I was happily married until I started chatting to a woman at work – now I can’t stop thinking about her.

DEAR DEIDRE: A WOMAN at work has me in turmoil. I’m 48 and happily married – or so I thought. Then this woman started working in the same department as me. We hit it off and messaged each other every day. She’s 43 and married too. The chats were j...

My mum’s boyfriend is a nasty bully but she keeps going back to him.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY mum is in a relationship with a nasty bully and my sister and I can’t stand him. They have a five-year-old boy together, our half-brother. This man hasn’t put Mum’s name on the house, as they aren’t married. He complains that she d...

I tried to throw myself in front of a train after cheating on my wife at work.

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD great sex with our showroom manager when we were on a health-and-safety course. It just seemed like fun at the time but my wife has thrown me out over it and it’s killing me — almost literally. I took myself to my local railway ...

My lover can only see me weekdays as weekends are reserved for his children.

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM seeing a man who says he can only see me weekdays as his weekends are reserved for his children. My friends say I am wasting my time but I’m not sure. We met through volunteering at a local nature centre so we have lots of intere...

I am happily married but have become infatuated with a woman at the gym.

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE become infatuated with a woman at the gym. I am happily married and have a job that I love. I try to stay fit so I put in an hour or so at the gym most evenings before I go home. A woman is usually there at the same time. We [&...

I’ve been sleeping with a man behind my husband’s back and he makes me feel loved.

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE just had great sex with a man from work. We agreed not to leave our partners and just wanted to enjoy ourselves but it all feels a lot more serious. This new guy at work caught my eye. He is easy to talk to and is interested in...

New man says he loves me to bits but I’m scared to commit as he seems needy.

DEAR DEIDRE: THE guy I’m seeing says he loves me to bits, though we’ve been together for just six weeks. I’m scared to commit as he seems needy. He came to Sunday lunch at my house when I’d invited my sister and family, a couple of close friends a...

I’m a man but I keep wearing women’s underwear in the hope I’ll get caught.

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a straight man of 32 but I keep wearing women’s underwear in the hope I will get caught. I have a girlfriend who’s 29 and I have accumulated a bag of underwear. When I get the chance, I slip into a pair of silk knickers or a lacy ...

Watching my wife have sex with my mate turns me on but I worry they’re too close.

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD always fantasised about watching my wife have sex with my best friend but, now it’s happening for real, I’m worrying that they are getting too close. My best friend has always fancied my wife and I guess that made me feel the lu...

My fiance wants date nights but I want to sleep as I’ve been promoted at work.

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been promoted at work, but the added pressure is causing problems at home. I am only 26, but I feel exhausted in the evenings. My fiance, who’s 29, wants to chat, enjoy a nice meal and then snuggle up in bed. All I want to do is ...

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I’m attracted to men without wanting sex with them but I want to romp with women.

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been attracted to men as long as I can remember but I’ve never wanted to have sex with them. I am not attracted to women but I do want to experience sex with them. I’m a 30-year-old guy and I’m still a virgin. I have done oral se...

I’ve made a huge mistake by offering to let my pal’s badly behaved daughter stay with our family.

DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT I was helping by offering to let my friend’s daughter stay with our family, but it’s been a big mistake. My friend is separated from her husband and filing for divorce. It’s had a big impact on their daughter. She’s 17. I’ve...

My wife only kisses me on my birthday, our wedding anniversary or Christmas.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife only kisses me on my birthday, our wedding anniversary or at Christmas. She never hugs me or puts an arm around me. If she touches me it’s by accident. She says she finds it difficult to show warmth and affection because she d...

Sex with my bisexual lover is out of this world but she won’t break up with her boyfriend.

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a single woman who is having a steaming hot affair with another woman, but I worry I’m wasting my time with her. Two months ago, this woman came to our office promoting her cleaning business. It seemed a much better deal than the...

I can’t last very long in the bedroom and it’s ruining my relationship.

DEAR DEIDRE: THOUGH I have a great relationship with my girlfriend, sex has taken a nosedive. I am 23, she is 22. We used to be at it all the time and I had no problem making her orgasm. Recently, though, I can’t last very long. I am now putting a...

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